Subtle Sign #3:
You're Confused at Work

In the early stages of being bullied,
you may feel confusion about your role in the company.

You have confused or contradictory feelings

- Your intuition tells you something is wrong, but you're not sure why - You feel manipulated, but there's no clear evidence - You don't understand why you feel angry and frustrated

You swing between good feelings and bad feelings for someone

- You enjoy a sense of trust and camaraderie with him - You enjoy basking in the glow of his approval and attention - You sometimes feel he does not respect you - Your relationship with him is complex and confusing - You distrust him intuitively, but you're not sure why - You question whether his caring is genuine - You feel that his affection is conditional

You feel negative emotions around someone, without knowing why

- You feel uncomfortable with his comments and questions - You feel frustrated or belittled - You feel manipulated - You feel excluded - You feel disrespected - You feel irritated afterwards - You feel drained afterwards - You feel like you must have done something wrong

After someone has tried to help you, you feel worse

- He seems to hit your hot buttons and cause you more pain - He never provides comfort, empathy or understanding - You feel he is trying to control your response to a problem - He tells you what to do, rather than helping you find the answer

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